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Using astrology to aid your shadow work – Black Lilith Moon

Black Moon Lilith is a point in the sky in which the moon is farthest from the earth.
A story of Lilith because you know I’m a nerd for these things.
In some Jewish mythology/folklore, Lilith is told to be Adams’s first wife before Eve. Rather than being created from his rib as Eve, she was created with the same clay as Adam. In the stories, she refuses to be subservient to Adam stating that they are equals, and leaves the Garden of Eden. She was portrayed as a demoness and the story goes that the angels killed hundreds of her children a day for her disobedience. There has been a turnaround on the view of Lilith as being the original woman to fight for equality.
Throughout history, you see Liliths everywhere. The women who dared to stand out from the crowd, out of comfort, safety, and security. Speak their mind, understand their worth, and live by it.
The too much woman.
I imagine that many of us can look back into our own families and see versions of Lilith. See how everyone speaks of her. I’ve been working on my family tree and the more I delve into the lives of the women who went before me I feel more and more grounded in being all of who I am. Women who left husbands, who had a child out of wedlock, who worked for a living. Spoken about as if they were mad, deranged, a loose wire. An elder member of my family bought her own house in her 30’s and rumour spread about how she did so. Who knows, there was no fact to back any story. What she did was against the norm, viewed to be disrespectful of the family. They were ashamed of her. How sad.
It wasn’t the men that said as much. It was the women. Women turn on others who display behaviour that deeply they desire to. Gobsmacked that anyone should have the audacity to be authentic, assertive, true to themselves.
This is the Black Lilith Moon placement. The unfiltered part of you. The part that really doesn’t give a shit about fitting in and living according to social norms.
When we suppress that instinctual part of ourselves we are triggered by it in others, it bothers us, offends us, we dislike those people.
To find out more about your placement you can calculate your placement here – https://cafeastrology.com/whats-my-black-moon-lilith.html
And find out more information on it here – https://cafeastrology.com/black-moon-lilith-signs-houses…
Does it resonate with you?

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How to tune into your intuition.

How to tune into your intuition.

by | Jun 3, 2021 |

When I do my weekly card pull in my free group there is always a message regarding intuition and I understand why.
Many of us in the group have learned not to trust our intuition, not to tune into it, not to value it.
I will give you an example. When you experience a domineering parent or an abusive guardian, your sense of ‘we are just as important as anyone else’ and ‘my opinion matters’ is overridden. Low self-esteem is the result.
‘I am not as worthy as others.’ You subconsciously tell yourself.
There are many other circumstances in which you will adopt this belief in childhood.
A belief that you genuinely believe to be true that over time you pass as fact.
You ignore your own internal navigation system time and time again because you have come to believe that you aren’t reliable or trustworthy. Others know better.

What it takes to have a healthy, fulfilling relationship.

What it takes to have a healthy, fulfilling relationship.

by | May 27, 2021 | ,

One of the most popular topics that people come to me about is relationships. After all, the quality of our lives is very much determined by the quality of the relationships we have with ourselves and others. I will start this by saying exactly what I do in my private sessions. You can not change anyone else. It’s important to acknowledge what is in your control and what is not. Ultimately, you can not force change within your loved one, you can however do your own work and come from a place of understanding, compassion, and assertion. We will get on to that in a moment.

So let’s talk about what a healthy relationship is. I have popped a list below however consider whether you have any additions to make.